Have you found the perfect gift? Does one exist? Gift giving has increasingly become more stressful and there has been increasing pressure to find the perfect gift. I’ve heard many couples in my office work through a conflict discussion around a seemingly haphazard...
couples
How to Stop Negative Sentiment Override Before It Starts
"When negative sentiment override is activated, even neutral or positive behaviors from your partner can be perceived as negative." John Gottman, Ph.D. Jane and Mike have been married for five years. Like many couples, they have disagreements about chores, household...
5 Signs You’re Ready for Marriage
Have you and your partner been discussing engagement and marriage more and more lately? Before you move into the engagement season, it's helpful to explore the signs that you may be ready to get married. Throughout this article, we'll explore five ways to gauge your...
What is the Gottman Method?
Seeking out couples therapy can be overwhelming. You’re likely sifting through a matrix of options, therapy types, and practice locations. Whether you’re looking to reconnect, improve communication, or rebuild trust, it’s important to seek therapy that is grounded in...
Want a Cheerful Sober Holiday? Make a Plan With Your Partner
When you get sober, it isn't always going to be something you share with everyone around you. In some cases, you may end up remaining with or meeting a new partner who still chooses to drink and has no interest in living a dry lifestyle. The disconnect between...
Holiday Anxiety? Try These 5 Coping Skills
Four shopping trips, three awkward chats, two crowded parties, and a dinner with your rude in-laws. Unsurprisingly, the holidays can bring about increased stress and heightened expectations. In addition to our everyday lives, the holiday season can come with pressure...
The Couple’s Gratitude Guide: Fondness and Admiration
"Successful long-term relationships are created through small words, small gestures, and small acts." - John Gottman The holidays are nearing, which often means many of us will spend more time with family and friends. For some, it's an exciting season and a time to...
How Does Divorce Mediation Work?
Deciding to divorce can be one of the most emotionally challenging and overwhelming experiences a couple may face. Many couples who reach this point may have tried therapy or discernment counseling, but sometimes, despite their efforts, they realize that divorce is...