For years, so much of your shared life may have centered around raising your children. As they become more independent, this is an opportunity to look back at the family you built, notice how each of you has changed, and get curious about what you want this next...
Couples therapy guide
What to Expect in a Disclosure Session and How Both Partners Should Prepare
When infidelity is discovered, the relationship often enters a crisis state immediately. Maybe your partner found out before you were ready to tell them. Maybe you admitted it because the truth was already in their eyes. Or maybe you denied it at first — panicked,...
When Bodies Change: How Couples Can Talk About Attraction, Health, and Acceptance With Care
For many couples, conversations about body changes are some of the hardest conversations to have — not because couples are superficial or unloving, but because these topics touch deeply vulnerable places in all of us. You may be thinking to yourself: “I don’t even...
AI Relationship Advice: 4 Guidelines From a Therapist
A couple I've been working with for several months — I'll call them Sara and Nate — shared something with me recently, almost sheepishly. They'd had an argument a few nights ago. It was a familiar one: Sara had come home exhausted after a long day and needed space to...
Before You Move In Together: 25 Questions Every Couple Should Ask
It starts with a toothbrush...then a drawer...then, the big question: "Should we move in together?" This key question has become a lot bigger than just the act of moving in itself. From the rising cost of living to mixed messages from family or friends to combining...
Avoidance in Relationships: What It Really Means and How to Reconnect
Erin: “I shared how I felt and you said nothing. Your silence said everything!” Taylor: “I didn’t know what to say… so I didn’t say anything. I didn’t want to make it worse!” I hear this kind of exchange often in couples therapy. In this case, Erin and Taylor were a...
A Therapist-Approved Holiday Survival Guide for Couples (That’s Actually Helpful)
The holidays are often painted as a joyful time filled with family, celebration, and connection. But for many couples, the holidays bring more pressure than peace — and it’s easy to feel disconnected. Whether it's navigating family dynamics, managing mismatched...
Rethinking Gift Giving: 5 Meaningful Ways Couples Can Celebrate on a Budget
‘Tis the season for generosity, love, and connection—and, let’s be honest, pressure. Between rising prices and economic uncertainty, it’s no surprise that many couples and families are feeling stretched thin. For many, what used to feel joyful now feels more like...