Relationship Tips
Do You Need a Prenup? Read This First.
One of our specialties is working with engaged couples. It's exciting to think about a future together filled with hope and possibilities. Newly engaged couples often prioritize wedding planning above other crucial conversations like your future and finances. That...
Why Small Gestures Make a Big Difference in Your Marriage
Do you make it a habit to show your partner love and appreciation each day? Small gestures of love can make a powerful impact on relationships. Dr. John Gottman discusses in his book “The Seven Principles in Making Marriage Work” that couples who regularly engage in...
Ask a Therapist: How Do I Get Over My Insecurities?
Everyone feels insecure at times. Insecurities can sneak into any relationship, whether at work or with family, in your romantic relationship, or with friends. If you've ever felt burdened with insecurities in your relationship and are unsure how to move forward, you...
How to Stop Negative Sentiment Override Before It Starts
"When negative sentiment override is activated, even neutral or positive behaviors from your partner can be perceived as negative." John Gottman, Ph.D. Jane and Mike have been married for five years. Like many couples, they have disagreements about chores, household...
5 Signs You’re Ready for Marriage
Have you and your partner been discussing engagement and marriage more and more lately? Before you move into the engagement season, it's helpful to explore the signs that you may be ready to get married. Throughout this article, we'll explore five ways to gauge your...
The Relationship Highs and Lows of High Achievers
When you hear the term "high achiever," which types of people come to mind? Many may visualize successful entrepreneurs, doctors, lawyers, and athletes. You may think of these types of people as confident, charismatic, and passionate about their impact on the world....
Your Quick-Start Guide to Apology Languages
Why is it so hard to apologize? Saying "I'm sorry" seems like a simple anecdote to a problem, so why can it sometimes be the hardest thing to do? Apologizing is the repair needed to build a bridge back to others. Understanding how to apologize within a relationship...
How to Solve Cycles of Sexual Disconnection
Does the subject of sex bring about tension, uncertainty, or arguments between you and your partner? Does your sex life feel stuck or disconnected? If so, you are not alone. Every couple faces disconnection with emotional and physical intimacy at some point in their...
What is the Gottman Method?
Seeking out couples therapy can be overwhelming. You’re likely sifting through a matrix of options, therapy types, and practice locations. Whether you’re looking to reconnect, improve communication, or rebuild trust, it’s important to seek therapy that is grounded in...
Strengthen Your Relationship With These 7 Resources
Welcome to the third post in our series, Therapist Resource Roundup. Each quarter, we share a list of resources focused on a different theme our therapists often work through with clients. Every roundup will feature books, articles, videos, and podcasts that our...