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How to Build Empathy in Relationships: Real-life Examples and Therapist-backed Tools
Many people believe empathy is something you’re born with—but in truth, it’s a skill you can practice. And in a world that can feel heavy and overwhelming, empathy is an unsung hero. But what is empathy, and how can you cultivate it? Whether you’re trying to reconnect with your partner, support... Read more
Why We Blame and Deny in Relationships — and What to Do Instead
Blame and denial are natural responses when relationships feel tense or uncertain. Many couples struggle with communication breakdowns, emotional distance, and repeated conflict. Yet, few realize how often these patterns are fueled by underlying defenses like blame and denial. In this post, we’ll explore why blame and denial emerge, what... Read more
Ask A Therapist: How Do I Actually Notice and Stop The Four Horsemen in Real Life?
Dear Therapist, I’ve been reading about the Four Horsemen from The Gottman Method, and I really want to improve how I show up in my relationship. But honestly, it’s hard to catch myself in the moment. Sometimes it feels like I only realize I was critical or defensive after the fact.... Read more
What is AuDHD? Navigating ADHD and Autism in your relationship
AuDHD is the experience of having both Autism and ADHD—and it's more common than you might think. For many couples, this dual neurotype can bring both strengths and challenges to a relationship, including emotional dysregulation, executive functioning struggles, and communication differences. With curiosity and support, partners can create a deeper... Read more
Is AI replacing your partner? How triangulation affects your relationship
Communication isn’t always easy in relationships, especially when emotions run high. Many couples struggle to express their true feelings directly to each other, fearing conflict, rejection, or simply not knowing how to put their emotions into words. Instead of turning toward their partner, many people turn to others—or even to AI... Read more
Top 7 Romantic Couples Retreats in the USA and Beyond to Reconnect and Recharge
As my husband and I approached our one-year anniversary, we wanted to take a romantic vacation to reconnect and recharge. We explored couples retreats, beach getaways, mountain hideaways, and even a few international options, hoping to unplug from work and distractions and simply focus on each other. When a friend... Read more
3 Strategies Every Couple Should Try to Reduce Stress in their Relationship
Let’s face it—stress is a universal experience that can infiltrate every aspect of our lives, including our relationships. Whether it’s work, parenting differences, or health concerns, stress is often an unavoidable part of daily life. But what exactly is stress, and how does it impact our relationships? In order to understand... Read more
Do You Need Discernment Counseling? Take This Quiz!
Are you feeling at a crossroads in your relationship with your husband? Or perhaps you and your wife have different goals for your partnership? Every relationship is unique, and couples often choose to stay together, separate, or seek couples therapy for various reasons. When a couple is unsure about the... Read more
Breaking the Silence: How to Spot and Overcome the Silent Treatment
Hearing someone say, “I’m giving them the silent treatment” brings up an array of emotions and memories. I feel anxious, recalling times when someone deliberately ignored me, and petty, remembering when I used silence to express frustration or “teach a lesson.” I also feel silly thinking about the ages I... Read more