As my husband and I approached our one-year anniversary, we wanted to take a romantic vacation to reconnect and recharge. We explored couples retreats, beach getaways, mountain hideaways, and even a few international options, hoping to unplug from work and distractions and simply focus on each other. When a friend recommended a wellness resort for couples in the Berkshires of Massachusetts, we decided to try something new. We found another location of the same resort in Tucson, Arizona, and booked that very week.
Two years later, my husband and I still talk fondly about our couples retreat at Miraval Resort. Taking a break together in a space designed for connection, experience, and relaxation was a beautiful way to deepen our relationship. We got to participate in pre-planned experiences while still finding the rest and renewal we needed. Below are seven romantic resorts and couples retreats in the U.S. and abroad where you can relax, explore, and reconnect with your partner.
Best couples retreats and romantic vacation spots
🧘♀️ 1. Miraval Resort, Tucson, Arizona – Luxury wellness retreat for couples
Miraval Arizona
At the base of the Santa Catalina Mountains lies 400 acres of sun-kissed bliss. From the moment you’re welcomed via private shuttle through the cactus-lined drive to the moment you’re escorted out by their caring team, you won’t lift a finger—unless, of course, you’re climbing a 60-foot pole or easing into downward dog during a morning yoga session.
Sample daily schedule
- 7:00 a.m. – Sunrise hike
- 11:00 a.m. – Loving kindness meditation
- 12:30 p.m. – Honey tasting experience
- 3:00 p.m. – Cocktail making class
- 6:00 p.m. – Couples massage
Highlights include phone-free stays, nutrient-dense meals, and equine therapy. Miraval also has locations in Austin, TX, and Lenox, MA.
🌐 www.miravalresorts.com/arizona
🍷 2. Farmhouse Inn, Sonoma County, California – Wine country couples getaway
Farmhouse Inn
This elegant yet cozy Sonoma retreat feels like coming home. With over 150 years of history, the Farmhouse Inn blends homestead charm with luxury and top-tier hospitality.
Sample daily schedule
- 8:00 a.m. – Farmhouse breakfast
- 10:00 a.m. – Whale watching
- 1:30 p.m. – Wine tasting
- 5:00 p.m. – Herbal bath & Tea making
- 7:00 p.m. – Farm-to-table dinner
Curl up with wine in front of your fireplace or take in Sonoma’s rolling vineyard views together.
🌐 www.farmhouseinn.com
🌊 3. The Sanderling Resort, Outer Banks, North Carolina – Romantic beach escape
thesanderlingresort.com
If a breath of ocean air is what you need, The Sanderling delivers. Located on North Carolina’s Outer Banks, this coastal gem offers the comfort of the Atlantic, incredible hospitality, and relaxing seaside experiences.
Sample daily schedule
- 7:30 a.m. – Yoga
- 12:00 p.m. – Book club
- 1:30 p.m. – Wild horse tour
- 6:00 p.m. – Sunset sailboat
- 8:30 p.m. – Dinner at Theodosia
Perfect for reconnecting over seafood, waves, and quality time.
🌐 www.thesanderling.com
🐐 4. Hemlock Neversink, Catskills, New York – Nature retreat with whimsy
Photo by: Bernardo Mancebo
Located in upstate New York, this eco-retreat is known for scenic beauty and unique activities—from goat hikes to terrarium-making.
Sample Daily Schedule
- 8:00 a.m. – Goat hike
- 10:00 a.m. – Terrarium workshop
- 12:00 p.m. – Beekeeping & honey tasting
- 4:00 p.m. – Adult swim
- 7:30 p.m. – Dinner at Bittersweet
This is the perfect place for couples who love trying new things together.
🌐 www.hemlockneversink.com
🏞 5. Brush Creek Ranch, Saratoga, Wyoming – Adventure and luxury in the American West
Brush Creek Ranch
Spread across 30,000 acres of private land, Brush Creek Ranch is an upscale ranch retreat designed for couples who crave outdoor adventure with a luxe twist.
Sample Daily Schedule
- 7:00 a.m. – Sunrise hike
- 11:00 a.m. – Scenic river float
- 5:00 p.m. – Couples massage
- 7:00 p.m. – Distillery dinner
- 9:30 p.m. – Stargazing with s’mores
Choose from cabins or lodge rooms and fall in love with nature—and each other—all over again.
🌐 www.brushcreekranch.com
International romantic retreats for couples
🌿 6. Amor Arenal, La Fortuna, Costa Rica – Lush jungle escape for two
Photo by: Dominik Simecek
Set near the Arenal Volcano, this rainforest resort offers private casitas, fresh cuisine, and sensory experiences.
Sample daily schedule
- 8:00 a.m. – Aqua harmony therapy
- 11:00 a.m. – Nature sanctuary tour
- 12:00 p.m. – Cacao ceremony
- 5:00 p.m. – Cooking class
- 9:00 p.m. – Night frog walk
From homemade kombucha to spa experiences, this romantic retreat will reawaken your senses.
🌐 www.amorarenal.com
🏰 7. Ellenborough Park, The Cotswolds, England – Regal romance in the countryside
Photo by: Daria Agafonova
Live like royalty in this 90-acre historic manor in the UK’s charming Cotswolds. Every room is uniquely designed to create a memorable stay.
Sample daily schedule
- 7:30 a.m. – Village walk
- 10:00 a.m. – Full English breakfast
- 12:15 p.m. – Afternoon tea
- 3:00 p.m. – Spa garden retreat
- 5:00 p.m. – Cheltenham Races
Whether you plan your entire trip around Ellenborough or incorporate it into a larger UK itinerary, this is elegance, redefined.
🌐 www.ellenboroughpark.com
Why couples retreats matter
With the busyness of life, work, and family, it can be hard to find time to simply be with your partner. A relationship-focused vacation or couples getaway lets you pause, reflect, and rekindle your connection.
For me, our retreat led to a renewed appreciation for my partner and our marriage. We laughed, rested, tried new things, and returned more grounded. Sometimes, being somewhere new helps you see each other with fresh eyes.
Ready to keep reconnecting?
If you’re planning a couples retreat or recently returned from a romantic vacation, you might be looking for more ways to stay connected. Our practice offers in-person couples therapy in Charlotte, NC, and Carefree, AZ, and virtual therapy for residents of Arizona, Florida, North Carolina, South Carolina, or Texas.
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